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Wednesday Reads: Name that Emotion

“How are you feeling?” Women experiencing the after effects of intimate betrayal dread this question. A myriad of emotions accompany this experience. Truthfully, many of her emotions can’t even be

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End of Year Celebration

Dear Friend, When I last wrote this letter, I told you that the Hope Redefined team and I were looking with expectancy toward 2021. As He always does, God has

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Crappy Cake

The afternoon ended with me seeing how much I disliked crappy cake, but how often I ate it. I know, I know. Weird topic for women facing betrayal right. Well,

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Letter to Pornography

Pornography,You are no longer welcome in my home. You are no longer invited either by force or by enabling into my marriage bed. I will partner no more with your

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The Gift of Grief

“I just want to get it all out so it’ll be gone,” I said bitterly.  “It’s not a one-and-done kind of thing. You’ll get better at grieving,” she said. My

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Boundaries After Betrayal

If you’ve been on the journey of recovery from sexual betrayal for any length of time, you’ve probably come across the term “boundaries.” That’s because betrayal trauma experts know that

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Endless Hope, Relentless Joy

Endless HOPE, relentless JOY started with a baby boy. – for king and country By the grace of God, I’ve always been able to separate the actions of people from

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Emmanuel, God With Us

Even though in my mind, I’ve placed Him in a stinky manger, far off and in another time, He calls himself Emmanuel. God with us. These very words can also

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