Why Support for Women

You are here because the story of your life has been hijacked by a reality you would have never expected. Me too. 
As women we wrestle with the word “need”. It can feel selfish, egocentric, or greedy. The reality of our situation is we need to heal. We need space to do this and complete the work. However, we rarely get the time, space, or resources to do that. So we pack up our pain for the sake of life moving on and we neglect our need for healing – hoping that one day it will just fade. The truth is we begin to feel parts of ourselves fade instead of the pain. For some, the loss of self is the alarm causing her to seek help. For others, it is the realization she no longer knows herself or her needs that leads her to a place like Hope Redefined. 
God made us for community. Throughout scripture, we see people navigate life in groups. Unfortunately, most women aren’t sure how to find a safe community when it comes to betrayal and the mess it creates.
A wife needs physical, intellectual, spiritual, and emotional support in order for healing to take place. As she steps into a safe community, her anxieties settle and her body relaxes because she is seen, validated, and understood. Her heart begins to soften and her self-preservation skills relax because they aren’t needed in this space. Her emotions are given permission to be present, and she gains language to discuss the things she has been feeling for so long. Sitting in community, she hears others struggle with their faith or relationship with God. Before too long, she begins to see how God can be present again and safe for her. 
I spent many years waiting for my husband to get better, so I could get better. I eagerly anticipated the day that he would come home from a group carrying the information I needed to heal. I unknowingly expected him to heal me – after all, he was the one that broke me. The truth is he isn’t capable of healing me. He can contribute to the healing of our relationship, but he can’t heal me. 
Having a community helps us see past our husbands and discover how other people, targeted support, and Jesus can heal us. 
You deserve to heal. You can heal. Welcome to the community who will help you on the journey. 

Discover Empowerment for the Betrayal Journey

Healthy boundaries are an essential part of the healing process.  Our Boundaries course is uniquely designed to give you real-time answers to your questions as you work through setting and sticking to your boundaries in daily life.

Are you struggling with feelings of betrayal and hopelessness?

Hope Redefined offers a 10-week Finding Hope Online Support and Study Group that offers participants an opportunity to overcome the devastation of betrayal. Participants will work through Hope Redefined’s Finding Hope workbook, which will help you better understand your pain and lead you to a place of healing.

Reflection, clarity, and courage

A Values workshop

Discover your inner strength and reclaim your values by reflecting and clarifying what is important to you, then step out with the courage to live by them daily. 

Need community support now?

As a woman experiencing sexual betrayal, the journey can feel lonely and isolating.  The confusion and shame can be paralyzing.  Take your first step toward healing today by joining the Hope Online Community. For a minimal monthly cost,  you get access to extensive resources and instant community support with women who are walking the same road.

Post Disclosure Support

Are you taking steps with your partner toward Full Therapeutic Disclosure?  Are you still reeling from the Rite of Truth? Do you lack direction now that you’ve walked through the disclosure process? 

We’ve been there, too! Find direction and community by joining our Post Disclosure support group.

Our Webinars are Available on Demand

For a minimal cost, you can gain immediate access to any of our webinars. Each one is designed to give you more information about a specific topic related to sexual betrayal.

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