Coaching

What is Coaching?

Coaching is encouraging, hope-filled, motivational and action-driven. It is about calling forth the intellect, brilliance, amazing problem-solving, and creativity in you. It’s also about growing in self-awareness, personal strengths and stretching yourself to staying intentional about your healing journey.

An easy way to view coaching is through a medical analogy. You are in a major car accident (discovery or relapse day). You are rushed into surgery, they just want to get the bleeding to stop, get it contained (initial support could look like pastor, mentor). Days later (in our case sometimes weeks or months) you are still in the hospital. Your body is beginning to heal from the traumatic day (scabs appearing) they decide to go in for another surgery to “fix” somethings (therapist). Following surgery your body is beginning to heal well but the muscles are still weak. You are referred out to Physical Therapy (coaching). You are given individual who assesses the injury, understands the workings of a healthy body and helps you construct a plan of recovery. You both work to come up with exercises that will both improve and strengthen your body and heart.

What can you expect?

We will work together to help you look at where you are now and where you would like to be. Together we will work to bridge that gap. We will pray together…probably cry together, and run hard after Jesus together.

I believe that accountability is just as important for you as it is for the addict. This is a great place to find accountability and keep moving toward healing as you learn new tools to navigate your journey.

To book a session or for questions regarding coaching, please email support@hoperedefined.org.

Is Coaching the Next Right Step for you? Here are a few questions to consider for coaching:

  • Are you struggling to identify the places you are feeling stuck in your recovery? 
  • Have you attempted to create boundaries but struggle to hold to them? 
  • Are you needing space to brainstorm or think through future needs, decisions, events? 
  • Do you need support to think through support plans like therapeutic separation, rebuilding trust, relapse/slip plans? 
  • Are you having a hard time seeing God in the middle of the mess? Do you need support shifting your eyes?

 

Meet Our Coaches

Lyschel Burket, PCC, FRLC, APSAT- C, CPC, ADOH, has been working with women since 2008 as they take steps toward healing and their pursuit of God. She has facilitated support groups specific to partners since 2013 both locally in Knoxville, TN and online through Vicki Tiede Ministries. Lyschel has coached with women navigating their betrayal story since 2017. She specializes in Full Therapeutic Disclosure support/coaching.

She is the Lead Hope Caster and Founder of Hope Redefined. She desires to be a part of something so much bigger than herself as she continues to expand the reach of support for women who are facing similar things to her own recovery story. She and her husband, Garren, live in Knoxville, TN with their 5 kiddos. Lyschel and Garren have been on the road of recovery since 2006.

Julie Calhoun, APSATS-CPC, is a certified professional coach and an APSATS trained and certified partner coach. is trained as a peer facilitator through A Door of Hope and in Couple Centered Recovery Coaching. A partner herself, she benefitted from the support of coaching in her own healing process, she is committed to give back to the community that was essential in my own journey of healing and growth. Her marriage of 37 years continues to experience healing as a result of commitment, hard work, and God’s grace. It is Julie’s honor and privilege to walk beside others, giving guidance, encouragement and hope.

Her favorite things are her children, grandchildren, her back porch watching the birds and sitting in the warm Texas sun, hiking, enjoying her yard and garden, staying fit and healthy, cooking, conversations that matter, and very long nights of sleep!

Debbie Ferree is a certified coach, APSATS trained, and has experienced betrayal trauma, as well as childhood sexual abuse. She is newly divorced, has five grown children, two grandchildren, and loves the Lord. While passionate about helping women who have experienced betrayal in a 1 on 1 atmosphere, she also loves to facilitate groups where women can experience healing in community. She’s an avid reader, loves to spend time with family and friends, homeschooled all of her kids, can assemble a 1,000 piece puzzle in a fairly short time and is a force to be reckoned with in a game of Phase 10!

Shawna Meek, CPC, PCC, APSATS-CPC, truly understands the roots of attachment distress in a marriage, even after addiction sobriety. Her personal story began in 2000, and after many years of mentoring women, she knew the Lord was calling her to an extensive coaching training program and ultimately APSATS as a certified partner coach. She is passionate about supporting women as they face specific challenges on this journey, including boundaries during separation and divorce, abuse and gaslighting, therapeutic disclosure preparation, intimacy anorexia and deprivation, and emotional and sexual reintegration.

Shawna and her husband, Kevin, live in Gilbert, Arizona, and have a story of God’s incredible redemption following separation, divorce, re-marriage and betrayal. They have four amazing kiddos ranging from elementary school age to a young adult in college – both biological and adopted. She knows the Lord has a mighty plan in all our stories, and no matter the outcome, He will bring hope even when it seems there is no hope.

Sherri Tanner,, Certified Professional Coach, Group Mastery Coach, APSATS trained, i is passionate to help women find hope and healing, as she has also walked through betrayal trauma. She understands that betrayal trauma can rock our world, fracture our faith and leave us wondering whom we can trust. She strongly supports women to find hope in the aftermath and to assure them they are not alone.

Coach Sherri is currently married to her husband of 32 years, after walking through disclosure and recovery of sexual addiction and betrayal. She was previously married and divorced to her former husband, leaving that abusive relationship after three years. She has two children and three grandchildren whom she adores. Her True North is the Lord Jesus Christ.

Dani M. Peterson, ACC, C-YT, APSATS Trained specializes in Betrayal Trauma Recovery and Post Traumatic Growth for those impacted by infidelity, sexual addiction, and emotional abandonment. Along with her personal experiences, training, and faith, she integrates coaching and several holistic wellness practices to help support women heal trauma and foster resilience.

Dani was previously married and divorced to her former husband of 20 years, leaving due to sexual and relational betrayal. Currently she is married to her husband Michael of 14 years, owns a Wire Fox Terrier named Enzo, and has two adult married children. She is originally from California but has now lived in Arizona for the past 30+ years.

From an early age, Dani has always known God but officially met Jesus in High School, at 16 years of age. She is committed to loving and serving Him and others with her heart, soul, mind, and strength.

Dani enjoys people and new experiences, a decent cappuccino, travel, the theater, a good laugh, and nature. She is also an avid reader and a forever student at heart.

If you are looking for specific support and need assistance finding someone, please contact us at contact@hoperedefined.org.

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