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Boundaries Assessment
Boundaries Assessment
Boundaries Assessment: Please select the word that best describes your relationship with each statement. Your results will be totaled and given to your coach. Allow your answers to inform you about the types of boundaries you may need to set.
These statements focus on your thoughts/beliefs.
I feel exhausted
Rarely
Sometimes
Often
I feel ashamed
Rarely
Sometimes
Often
I feel anxious/unsafe/scared/afraid
Rarely
Sometimes
Often
I get angry
Rarely
Sometimes
Often
I can't control/stop my anger
Rarely
Sometimes
Often
I think boundaries are controlling
Rarely
Sometimes
Often
Resentment and/or bitterness grip me
Rarely
Sometimes
Often
I feel helpless
Rarely
Sometimes
Often
I think it's selfish to take care of myself
Rarely
Sometimes
Often
I'm always caring for others and not me
Rarely
Sometimes
Often
I feel responsible to keep my partner from acting out
Rarely
Sometimes
Often
I believe I must be obedient/submissive to my partner
Rarely
Sometimes
Often
I don't feel like I deserve respect
Rarely
Sometimes
Often
I don't know if my partner is acting out or sober
Rarely
Sometimes
Often
I'm doing all the giving; my partner is doing all the taking
Rarely
Sometimes
Often
My partner does not listen to me
Rarely
Sometimes
Often
My partner is not emotionally vulnerable with me
Rarely
Sometimes
Often
My partner does not own his behavior
Rarely
Sometimes
Often
I'm being lied to/gaslighted/minimized/blamed/abused/ignored
Rarely
Sometimes
Often
I find it challenging to make decisions
Rarely
Sometimes
Often
My relationships are often difficult
Rarely
Sometimes
Often
I behave passive-aggressively towards my partner
Rarely
Sometimes
Often
I've forgotten who I am/I feel I've lost myself
Rarely
Sometimes
Often
I fear being rejected or abandoned
Rarely
Sometimes
Often
I walk on eggshells with my partner
Rarely
Sometimes
Often
If my partner is not okay, I'm not okay
Rarely
Sometimes
Often
If my partner is okay, I'm okay
Rarely
Sometimes
Often
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