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End of Year Celebration

Dear Friend, When I last wrote this letter, I told you that the Hope Redefined team and I were looking with expectancy toward 2021. As He always does, God has…

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Unloved & Overlooked

The following Her Voice story comes from Leah Gillam: The biblical character who most exemplifies trust to me is my old testament namesake, Leah. In the wake of my husband’s…

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I Am Becoming

The following Her Voice post was shared by a HILL Group participant: Recently in group, we were asked, “If our life was a book, what chapter are we in?” Here’s…

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Are You Ready for Dessert?

In April of 2021 I had the privilege to hang out with Dr. Juli Slattery on her podcast, Java with Juli. Our conversation…S E X. Specifically re-entering into sexual intimacy after betrayal.

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Keynotes, sandwiches, and breakouts Oh My!

What can one person do to effect change? We left with an understanding that the Lord is opening doors we get to walk through to help with sexual betrayal and sexual addiction.

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Crappy Cake

The afternoon ended with me seeing how much I disliked crappy cake, but how often I ate it. I know, I know. Weird topic for women facing betrayal right. Well,…

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Happy 2nd Birthday, Hope Redefined

If I’ve never gotten the chance to tell you the story of the wrestle the Lord and I have had when He asked me to be a part of this work, I will be honest with you. I did not want to do this. I have a habit of saying “NO” first and then coming back around

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Letter to Pornography

Pornography,You are no longer welcome in my home. You are no longer invited either by force or by enabling into my marriage bed. I will partner no more with your…

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The Gift of Grief

“I just want to get it all out so it’ll be gone,” I said bitterly.  “It’s not a one-and-done kind of thing. You’ll get better at grieving,” she said. My…