The Sacred Work of Perseverance
Forged Between What Is and What We Wish Perseverance is not loud or flashy. It is quiet. Steady. Sometimes trembling. And almost always forged in the tension between what we
March 3, 2026
Forged Between What Is and What We Wish Perseverance is not loud or flashy. It is quiet. Steady. Sometimes trembling. And almost always forged in the tension between what we
Returning Responsibility to Its Rightful Place I remember sitting at my kitchen table weeks after discovery day, replaying moments of my married life. We weren’t big fighters; in fact, we
Self-blame often shows up quietly after betrayal. It sounds like If I had been more attentive…, If I had prayed harder…, If I had handled conflict better, this wouldn’t have
If we’re honest, healing feels overwhelming on this journey. After betrayal, the idea of “getting better” can feel exhausting—like one more thing you’re supposed to figure out. If that’s where
If we were sitting across from each other with warm mugs in hand, this is where I’d lean in and say: It’s okay if you’re angry with God right now.
After betrayal, one of the most common instincts is to minimize your pain. You may tell yourself to be strong, to move on, or to focus on keeping things together.
The calendar flips. The confetti settles. And suddenly it’s a new year. It often arrives with quiet pressure—an expectation to be hopeful, motivated, and ready for change. But when you
Advent is a season of waiting. We light candles, mark days on the calendar, and remind ourselves that Christmas is coming. For many, Advent feels gentle and hopeful. But for
Looking back, I remember that first holiday season after betrayal vividly. The decorations felt sharper than usual, the holiday music heavier, and even casual family conversations seemed loaded with reminders
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