Releasing Self-Blame (Pt. 1)
The Quiet Weight of Self-Blame Self-blame after relational betrayal is a common response. When faced with our spouse’s deceit, we ask the same questions. What did I miss? Was I
February 3, 2026
The Quiet Weight of Self-Blame Self-blame after relational betrayal is a common response. When faced with our spouse’s deceit, we ask the same questions. What did I miss? Was I
If we were sitting across from each other with warm mugs in hand, this is where I’d lean in and say: It’s okay if you’re angry with God right now.
When betrayal enters your marriage, it doesn’t just bring sadness—it brings shock. Many women assume what they’re feeling is “just grief,” but betrayal trauma is different. Grief comes from loss;
After betrayal, emotions often show up loud, tangled, and overwhelming. One moment you feel completely numb, and the next you feel everything all at once. If that sounds familiar, you’re
After betrayal, one of the most common instincts is to minimize your pain. You may tell yourself to be strong, to move on, or to focus on keeping things together.
The calendar flips. The confetti settles. And suddenly it’s a new year. It often arrives with quiet pressure—an expectation to be hopeful, motivated, and ready for change. But when you
As October arrives, store aisles fill with costumes and masks of every kind—superheroes, princesses, and playful disguises meant for one night of pretending. But for many walking through betrayal trauma,
Understand this, dear brothers and sisters: You must all be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to get angry. James 1:19 NLT James 1:19 is one of those
Welcome to Part 2 of Playing Offense on Valentine’s Day. In our last post, we explored the emotional impact of Valentine’s Day in a betrayal story. We also acknowledge the
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