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So sorry for the circumstances that have brought you to Hope Redefined, however, we are grateful you have found a place where you can find support and encouragement as you grow from the trauma and impact of sexual betrayal in your life.
You have made it through an introductory call and have likely signed up for a coaching package. Below you will find the links to necessary information as well as helpful resources.
Let's Get Started
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Complete your forms:
- Coaching Intake Form
This form needs to be completed if you will be participating in ANY coaching within Hope Redefined. This form is to help us, your coaches, get to know you better prior to the group starting. Your responses will remain confidential and will only be shared with the Hope Redefined coach you are working with. - Read and Accept our Hope Online Community Agreement
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Things You Will Need:
- A Journal
- Ability to meet with your coach via Zoom
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Join our community!
- If you are not currently a member of Hope Online, it’s time to join us here. This will be where ALL of our group communications will take place when you are part of a group.
- If are already a Hope Online Community member, you will have your login information set already.
- Take a moment to consider joining the community of Hope Online! Here’s a video that shows you the ease of using Hope Online and the benefit of connecting with other women through a safe platform.
- If you get stuck, reach out to our Communities Manager, Tami Rhymes tami@hoperedefined.org
FAQs
Lyschel Burket, PCC, FRLC, APSATS-CPC, ADOH, CDGC, CMC, has been working with women since 2008 as they take steps toward healing and their pursuit of God. She has facilitated support groups specific to partners since 2013 both locally in Knoxville, TN and online through Vicki Tiede Ministries. Lyschel has coached with women navigating their betrayal story since 2017. She specializes in Full Therapeutic Disclosure support/coaching.
She is the Lead Hope Caster and Founder of Hope Redefined. She desires to be a part of something so much bigger than herself as she continues to expand the reach of support for women who are facing similar things to her own recovery story. She lives in Lenoir City, TN with her five kids. Lyschel has been on the road of recovery since 2006.
Renee Adams, CPC and ADOH-trained peer facilitator, is a C-SASI (Christian Sex Addiction Specialist International) candidate with a deep heart for women facing betrayal trauma and abuse. Having walked through her own journey of betrayal, mental illness, homeschooling, foster parenting, ministry, and more, she understands the layered challenges that come with healing.
Through coaching, therapy, and support groups, Renee experienced God gently leading her from isolation into light and truth. These spaces offered her safety, clarity, and the strength to set boundaries and seek peace for herself and her children—even in the midst of her husband’s bipolar disorder and ongoing struggles.
Now, Renee feels called to walk beside other women, offering the same compassion, prayer, and Spirit-led support that helped her. She believes in the power of hope, healing, and small, courageous steps toward restoration as beloved daughters of God.
She holds tightly to Hebrews 10:23, 35–36, trusting in the faithfulness of the One who heals. Renee lives in Indiana near her two adult sons, homeschools her younger children, and enjoys worship music, porch-sitting, and game nights with her family.
Sharon Jackson is an APSATS-CPC Professional Life Coach. Sharon has a heart to support and walk with women impacted by infidelity and betrayal trauma. She has led betrayal partner groups since 2014 and is A Door of Hope Certified Peer Facilitator-ADOH (C-SASI-Christian Sex Addiction Specialists International). Through the coaching process, she was able to begin to find safety, validation and encouragement that allowed her to take the next steps of healing. In the middle of “messy”, having a betrayal coach allowed her to reconnect with God and to find security in knowing that He was still there walking alongside her. “God has always been my anchor during life storms. Her faith and love of Jesus allowed for peace in understanding that regardless of the outcome of the marriage, she would not only survive but thrive. She continues to be intentional on doing the work of recovery with her husband of 36 years.
God is leading her as a Christian coach to be a part of the next wave of helping women become “unstuck” and move forward with hope, perseverance, and abundant living in the aftermath of sexual betrayal. Life coaching can help betrayed women to look forward to a future where they hold the key to their healing choices.
Sharon’s Personal Mission: Proverbs 20:5: “The purposes of a person’s heart are deep waters, but one who has understanding draws them out.” Your healing lies within you, and I will walk with you as we travel along this unintended journey.”
Her favorite hobbies are spending time with God, walking in the awe of beautiful nature, listening to worship music, vacations, and regular massages.
Shawna Meek, CPC, PCC, APSATS-CPC, truly understands the roots of attachment distress in a marriage, even after addiction sobriety. Her personal story began in 2000, and after many years of mentoring women, she knew the Lord was calling her to an extensive coaching training program and ultimately APSATS as a certified partner coach. She is passionate about supporting women as they face specific challenges on this journey, including boundaries during separation and divorce, abuse and gaslighting, therapeutic disclosure preparation, intimacy anorexia and deprivation, and emotional and sexual reintegration.
Shawna and her husband, Kevin, live in Gilbert, Arizona, and have a story of God’s incredible redemption following separation, divorce, re-marriage and betrayal. They have four amazing kiddos ranging from elementary school age to a young adult in college – both biological and adopted. She knows the Lord has a mighty plan in all our stories, and no matter the outcome, He will bring hope even when it seems there is no hope.
Jean Mudry, ACC, APSATS-CPC, CDGC, TICC, ADOH, has supported women through coaching and groups since 2018. She specializes in helping women navigate the full therapeutic disclosure process. After experiencing betrayal, she partnered with a coach who became a source of hope and strength throughout her healing journey. Now, she offers that same hope to God’s hurting daughters, believing that courage is contagious and healing is possible.
Jean and her husband of 34 years have two adult children, are empty nesters, and live in Missouri with their dog, Riley. Before becoming an APSATS partner coach, she was a public school teacher and homeschool mom. Jean enjoys hiking and biking in the great outdoors with her husband and loving on her grandson, Lucas.
Jacquelyn Petersen, ACC, APSATS – CPC, ADOH peer facilitator trained — first experienced betrayal in 2006. It took many years, and additional betrayals to finally find the right care. The pain excruciating, the isolation deafening, the impact of betrayal touching every part of us. Yet, in it all, the Lord has been a source of comfort and faithfulness in Jacquelyn’s own healing journey, thankful for the support of betrayal trauma informed professionals. Not long after walking through breast cancer a few years ago, Jacquelyn sensed a shift in her life and obtained her ICF coaching certification. A Certified Partner Coach (CPC) with APSATS, Jacquelyn has worked with women who have experienced betrayal and has facilitated betrayal partner groups both locally and online. After serving in ministry in the past, Jacquelyn is grateful to be part of the healing ministry and community at Hope Redefined.
Honored to come alongside partners in this healing road, Jacquelyn is dedicated to creating a safe, empathetic and supportive space where you can be heard, seen, and understood. Jacquelyn is an ally on this road to healing, empowering women to cultivate safety, exploring needs, establishing healthy boundaries, navigating loss, connecting her values and vision for the future with resilience and strength.
Originally from Canada, Jacquelyn resides in Dallas, Texas with her dog Ice and has two fabulous young adult daughters. Her sweet spot is by the water: lakes, rivers and the ocean, whether it be hiking, kayaking or reading by the water, drinking in the beautiful, fluid places.
Jacquelyn looks forward to meeting a woman right where she’s at, supporting her with empathy and validation, partnering with her on the healing journey.
Jill Pool is a Certified Professional Coach, APSATS Candidate, and A Door of Hope Peer Facilitator. She has a passion for helping hurting women because she’s been there herself. For years Jill tried to heal on her own but it was only when she embraced vulnerability and sought help that her true healing journey began. She now seeks to empower other hurting women to speak up about the betrayal, abuse, and/or neglect they’re enduring while also staying true to their faith and values. One of the ways Jill hopes to be a “voice for the voiceless” is by supporting betrayed wives with clear language and definitions to better be able to articulate themselves. Inspired by 2 Corinthians 1:3-5, which states, “Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our affliction, so that we may be able to comfort those who are in any affliction, with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God,” Jill views it as a privilege to share that same hope and comfort with other women.
Jill and her husband Alonso have been married for over 27 years. She is also a homeschooling mom of 12 children. Originally from Indiana, she and her family have lived in Tennessee for the last decade. Sunset walks along the water and games with her family are some of her favorite activities. She also enjoys genealogy and digital design.
Alison Ruhter, Certified Professional Coach, APSATS-CPC, passionate about serving others and supporting woman in their healing journey after the devastation of sexual betrayal. A partner herself, she has experienced betrayal trauma and has walked the rocky road of separation. With her personal and professional experience, she fully understands the deep pain and confusion that sexual betrayal brings.
Alison loves the Lord and seeks Him in her daily life. He has been her great comforter and provider in her own healing journey. Over a decade ago, the Holy Spirit spoke to Alison and said He would use her story for His good and not waste the deep pain she was experiencing. It didn’t make sense at that time, but she knew God would be faithful. He has opened doors and provided a clear path of becoming a professional coach. She is now dedicated to joyfully serving other women with great compassion and empathy.
Alison was married for 20 years and has three children. She has had the privilege to have lived on the east coast, upper mid west and west coast. She now resides in the great state of Texas in the northern suburbs of Dallas. In her free time, Alison leads a betrayal group at her church and delights in worshiping the Lord through playing the violin with the worship team. She is both a dog and cat lover, a Cowboy’s football fan, loves to kayak and is refreshened by a cold glass of unsweetened iced tea on a hot Texas day.
Michelle Russell, MA, LPCC, BCC, APSATS-CPC, A Door of Hope peer facilitator-trained, CDGC-trained, understands from personal experience the challenges and difficulties encountered while journeying through life. After dealing with cancer as a young adult, experiencing infertility, failed adoptions, and other losses, she felt God calling her to walk with others as a licensed counselor. In 2020, she learned of her husband’s lifetime sexual addiction, and after 37 years of marriage, she began yet a new journey, clinging to the God who had never left her. Michelle pursued her own healing, and God birthed a passion in her to become a life coach in order to serve and support other women who are walking similar paths. In all of the pain, confusion, and devastation that sexual betrayal leaves behind, Michelle firmly believes that the good plans God has for her and others cannot be changed by the actions of someone else, even the betrayal of a spouse. Michelle feels privileged to partner with others as they grow more and more into who God created them to be—without this, life’s harmful effects which have shaped all of us.
Michelle is a board-certified coach, and APSATS Certified Partner Coach, a trauma and resilience coach, and a grief coach. She facilitates groups for women who have experienced sexual betrayal and she works with betrayed partners as they negotiate the healing process through gaining safety and stability, establishing boundaries, navigating the disclosure process, and finding hope in what looks only to be ashes. Michelle has a variety of fuzzy-faced children that most people call pets. She enjoys living in rural Ohio, exploring the countryside on her bike, hiking, walking, and spending time with Jesus and other friends.
Lyschel Burket is the Lead Hope Caster and facilitator for Finding Hope Support Groups. Lyschel can be contacted at support@hoperedefined.org.
Kristen Kelley, kk@hoperedefined.org, is our Ministry Support and can assist with payment questions, scheduling issues or any additional ministry needs.
Alicia Hall is the Media and Content coordinator, as well as the administrator for groups. Alicia can be reached at alicia@hoperedefined.org.
Rhonda Thomas is the communications manager for Hope Online. If you have problems accessing the Hope Online Community, or questions navigating the site, please reach out to her at rhonda@hoperedefined.org.