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So sorry for the circumstances that have brought you to Hope Redefined, however, we are grateful you have found a place where you can find support and encouragement as you grow from the trauma and impact of sexual betrayal in your life.

You have made it through an introductory call and have likely signed up for a coaching package. Below you will find the links to necessary information as well as helpful resources.

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Complete your forms:

  1. Coaching Intake Form
    This form needs to be completed if you will be participating in ANY coaching within Hope Redefined. This form is to help us, your coaches, get to know you better prior to the group starting. Your responses will remain confidential and will only be shared with the Hope Redefined coach you are working with.
  2. Read and Accept our Hope Online Community Agreement


Things You Will Need:

  • A Journal
  • Ability to meet with your coach via Zoom


Join our community!

  • If you are not currently a member of Hope Online, it’s time to join us here. This will be where ALL of our group communications will take place when you are part of a group.
  • If are already a Hope Online Community member, you will have your login information set already.
  • Not sure how to get where you need to go? Here are directions for:  How to Log Into Hope Online Community/Mighty Networks
  • If you get stuck, reach out to our Communities Manager, Faye Dykema,


Lyschel Burket, PCC, FRLC, APSAT- CPC, ADOH, has been working with women since 2008 as they take steps toward healing and their pursuit of God. She has facilitated support groups specific to partners since 2013 both locally in Knoxville, TN and online through Vicki Tiede Ministries. Lyschel has coached with women navigating their betrayal story since 2017. She specializes in Full Therapeutic Disclosure support/coaching.

She is the Lead Hope Caster and Founder of Hope Redefined. She desires to be a part of something so much bigger than herself as she continues to expand the reach of support for women who are facing similar things to her own recovery story. She and her husband, Garren, live in Knoxville, TN with their 5 kids. Lyschel and Garren have been on the road of recovery since 2006.

Email Lyschel

Julie Calhoun, APSATS-CPC, is a certified professional coach and an APSATS trained and certified partner coach. is trained as a peer facilitator through A Door of Hope and in Couple Centered Recovery Coaching. A partner herself, she benefitted from the support of coaching in her own healing process, she is committed to give back to the community that was essential in my own journey of healing and growth. Her marriage of 37 years continues to experience healing as a result of commitment, hard work, and God’s grace. It is Julie’s honor and privilege to walk beside others, giving guidance, encouragement and hope.

Her favorite things are her children, grandchildren, her back porch watching the birds and sitting in the warm Texas sun, hiking, enjoying her yard and garden, staying fit and healthy, cooking, conversations that matter, and very long nights of sleep!

Email Julie

Debbie Ferree is a certified coach, APSATS-CPC, and has experienced betrayal trauma, as well as childhood sexual abuse. She is divorced, has five grown children, two grandchildren, and loves the Lord. While passionate about helping women who have experienced betrayal in a 1 on 1 atmosphere, she also loves to facilitate groups where women can experience healing in community. She’s an avid reader, loves to spend time with family and friends, homeschooled all of her kids, can assemble a 1,000 piece puzzle in a fairly short time and is a force to be reckoned with in a game of Phase 10!

Email Debbie

Sharon Jackson is an APSATS trained Professional Life Coach. Sharon has a heart to support and walk with women impacted by infidelity and betrayal trauma. She has led betrayal partner groups since 2014 and is A Door of Hope Certified Peer Facilitator-ADOH (C-SASI-Christian Sex Addiction Specialists International). Through the coaching process, she was able to begin to find safety, validation and encouragement that allowed her to take the next steps of healing. In the middle of “messy”, having a betrayal coach allowed her to reconnect with God and to find security in knowing that He was still there walking alongside her. “God has always been my anchor during life storms. Her faith and love of Jesus allowed for peace in understanding that regardless of the outcome of the marriage, she would not only survive but thrive. She continues to be intentional on doing the work of recovery with her husband of 36 years.

God is leading her as a Christian coach to be a part of the next wave of helping women become “unstuck” and move forward with hope, perseverance, and abundant living in the aftermath of sexual betrayal. Life coaching can help betrayed women to look forward to a future where they hold the key to their healing choices.

Sharon’s Personal Mission: Proverbs 20:5: “The purposes of a person’s heart are deep waters, but one who has understanding draws them out.” Your healing lies within you, and I will walk with you as we travel along this unintended journey.”

Her favorite hobbies are spending time with God, walking in the awe of beautiful nature, listening to worship music, vacations, and regular massages.

Shawna Meek, CPC, PCC, APSATS-CPC, truly understands the roots of attachment distress in a marriage, even after addiction sobriety. Her personal story began in 2000, and after many years of mentoring women, she knew the Lord was calling her to an extensive coaching training program and ultimately APSATS as a certified partner coach. She is passionate about supporting women as they face specific challenges on this journey, including boundaries during separation and divorce, abuse and gaslighting, therapeutic disclosure preparation, intimacy anorexia and deprivation, and emotional and sexual reintegration.

Shawna and her husband, Kevin, live in Gilbert, Arizona, and have a story of God’s incredible redemption following separation, divorce, re-marriage and betrayal. They have four amazing kiddos ranging from elementary school age to a young adult in college – both biological and adopted. She knows the Lord has a mighty plan in all our stories, and no matter the outcome, He will bring hope even when it seems there is no hope.

Email Shawna

Dani M. Peterson, ACC, C-YT, APSATS Trained specializes in Betrayal Trauma Recovery and Post Traumatic Growth for those impacted by infidelity, sexual addiction, and emotional abandonment. Along with her personal experiences, training, and faith, she integrates coaching and several holistic wellness practices to help support women heal trauma and foster resilience.

Dani was previously married and divorced to her former husband of 20 years, leaving due to sexual and relational betrayal. Currently she is married to her husband Michael of 14 years, owns a Wire Fox Terrier named Enzo, and has two adult married children. She is originally from California but has now lived in Arizona for the past 30+ years.

From an early age, Dani has always known God but officially met Jesus in High School, at 16 years of age. She is committed to loving and serving Him and others with her heart, soul, mind, and strength.

Dani enjoys people and new experiences, a decent cappuccino, travel, the theater, a good laugh, and nature. She is also an avid reader and a forever student at heart.

Coach Dani Peterson Intro from Hope Redefined on Vimeo.

Sherri Tanner, Certified Professional Coach, Group Mastery Coach, APSATS trained, passionate to help women find hope and healing, as she has also walked through betrayal trauma. She understands that betrayal trauma can rock our world, fracture our faith and leave us wondering whom we can trust. She strongly supports women to find hope in the aftermath and to assure them they are not alone.

Coach Sherri is currently married to her husband of 32 years, after walking through disclosure and recovery of sexual addiction and betrayal. She was previously married and divorced to her former husband, leaving that abusive relationship after three years. She has two children and three grandchildren whom she adores. Her True North is the Lord Jesus Christ.

Coach Sherri Tanner Intro from Hope Redefined on Vimeo.

Lyschel Burket is the Lead Hope Caster and facilitator for Finding Hope Support Groups.  Lyschel can be contacted at

Shawna Meek –

Debbie Ferree –

Julie Calhoun –

Kristine Rego,, is our Ministry Support and can assist with payment questions, scheduling issues or any additional ministry needs. 

Faye Dykema is the communications manager for Hope Online. If you have problems accessing the Hope Online Community, or questions navigating the site, please reach out to her at

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