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So sorry for the circumstances that have brought you to Hope Redefined, however, we are grateful you have found a place where you can find support and encouragement as you grow from the trauma and impact of sexual betrayal in your life.

You have made it through an introductory call and have likely signed up for a coaching package. Below you will find the links to necessary information as well as helpful resources.

Let's Get Started


Complete your forms:

  1. Coaching Intake Form
    This form needs to be completed if you will be participating in ANY coaching within Hope Redefined. This form is to help us, your coaches, get to know you better prior to the group starting. Your responses will remain confidential and will only be shared with the Hope Redefined coach you are working with.
  2. Read and Accept our Terms & Conditions
  3. Read and Accept our Hope Online Community Agreement


Things You Will Need:

  • A Journal
  • Ability to meet with your coach via Zoom


Join our community!

  • If you are not currently a member of Hope Online, IT’S TIME FOR JOIN US HERE.  This will be where ALL of our group communications will take place throughout the group. If you are a new Hope Online member, you will have three months of free membership. When you first open the link, make sure to click on the TRY FREE button (not the “sign in”), you will be asked to enter your credit card. It will NOT be charged until your three months free trial is expired. (See the link below: How to Log Into Hope Online Community.)
  • If are already a Hope Online Community member, you will have your login information set already.
  • Not sure how to get where you need to go? Here are directions for:  How to Log Into Hope Online Community/Mighty Networks
  • If you get stuck, reach out to our Communities Manager, Faye Dykema,


Lyschel BurketPCC, FRLC, APSATS-c, ADOH, has been working with women since 2008 as they take steps toward healing and their pursuit of God. She has facilitated support groups specific to partners since 2013 both locally in Knoxville, TN and online through Vicki Tiede Ministries.

She is the Lead Hope Caster and Founder of Hope Redefined. She desires to be a part of something so much bigger than herself as she continues to expand the reach of support for women who are facing similar things to her own recovery story. She and her husband, Garren, live in Knoxville, TN with their 5 kiddos. Lyschel and Garren have been on the road of recovery since 2006.

Debbie Ferree is a certified coach, APSATS trained, and has experienced betrayal trauma, as well as childhood sexual abuse. She is newly divorced, has five grown children, two grandchildren, and loves the Lord. While passionate about helping women who have experienced betrayal in a 1 on 1 atmosphere, she also loves to facilitate groups where women can experience healing in community. She’s an avid reader, loves to spend time with family and friends, homeschooled all of her kids, can assemble a 1,000 piece puzzle in a fairly short time and is a force to be reckoned with in a game of Phase 10!

Shawna Meek, CPC, PCC, APSATS-CPC, truly understands the roots of attachment distress in a marriage, even after addiction sobriety. Her personal story began in 2000, and after many years of mentoring women, she knew the Lord was calling her to an extensive coaching training program and ultimately APSATS as a certified partner coach. She is passionate about supporting women as they face specific challenges on this journey, including boundaries during separation and divorce, abuse and gaslighting, therapeutic disclosure preparation, intimacy anorexia and deprivation, and emotional and sexual reintegration.

Shawna and her husband, Kevin, live in Gilbert, Arizona, and have a story of God’s incredible redemption following separation, divorce, re-marriage and betrayal. They have four amazing kiddos ranging from elementary school age to a young adult in college – both biological and adopted. She knows the Lord has a mighty plan in all our stories, and no matter the outcome, He will bring hope even when it seems there is no hope.

Julie Calhoun, 

Lyschel Burket is the Lead Hope Caster and facilitator for Finding Hope Support Groups.  Lyschel can be contacted at

Shawna Meek –

Debbie Ferree –

Julie Calhoun –

Kristine Rego,, is our Ministry Support and can assist with payment questions, scheduling issues or any additional ministry needs. 

Faye Dykema is the communications manager for Hope Online. If you have problems accessing the Hope Online Community, or questions navigating the site, please reach out to her at

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