So sorry for the circumstances that have brought you to Hope Redefined, however, we are grateful you have found a place where you can find support and encouragement as you grow from the trauma and impact of sexual betrayal in your life.
You have made it through an introductory call and have likely signed up for a coaching package. Below you will find the links to necessary information as well as helpful resources.
Lyschel Burket, PCC, FRLC, APSAT- CPC, ADOH, CDGC-Candidate, has been working with women since 2008 as they take steps toward healing and their pursuit of God. She has facilitated support groups specific to partners since 2013 both locally in Knoxville, TN and online through Vicki Tiede Ministries. Lyschel has coached with women navigating their betrayal story since 2017. She specializes in Full Therapeutic Disclosure support/coaching.
She is the Lead Hope Caster and Founder of Hope Redefined. She desires to be a part of something so much bigger than herself as she continues to expand the reach of support for women who are facing similar things to her own recovery story. She and her husband, Garren, live in Knoxville, TN with their 5 kids. Lyschel and Garren have been on the road of recovery since 2006.
Leah Gillam, Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Board Approved Supervisor (in the state of Texas), A Door of Hope peer facilitator-trained, APSATS Certified Clinical Partner Specialist-candidate. Leah joins the coaching team of Hope Redefined not as a coach but as a consultant to women who are taking first steps or immersed deep in the trenches of the trauma of betrayal. Leah offers her voice to those who may be grieving or avoiding grief, any seeking to establish boundaries, women wrestling with anger, as well as those seeking guidance for their next steps on the healing journey. Her heart is to build safe communities where betrayed partners will connect, explore, and experience the hope of Jesus. Leah has worked with teens in crisis and their families. Leah specializes as a trauma therapist in the great state of Texas; she holds a certification in EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing), incorporating DBT (Dialectical Behavioral Therapy) and CBT (Cognitive Behavioral Therapy).
Leah has been involved in the community of Hope Redefined since 2020. She lives in the Houston area with her husband of 12 years, her two children, and some rescue dogs. She enjoys CrossFit, good books, and sushi.
Sharon Jackson is an APSATS-CPC Professional Life Coach. Sharon has a heart to support and walk with women impacted by infidelity and betrayal trauma. She has led betrayal partner groups since 2014 and is A Door of Hope Certified Peer Facilitator-ADOH (C-SASI-Christian Sex Addiction Specialists International). Through the coaching process, she was able to begin to find safety, validation and encouragement that allowed her to take the next steps of healing. In the middle of “messy”, having a betrayal coach allowed her to reconnect with God and to find security in knowing that He was still there walking alongside her. “God has always been my anchor during life storms. Her faith and love of Jesus allowed for peace in understanding that regardless of the outcome of the marriage, she would not only survive but thrive. She continues to be intentional on doing the work of recovery with her husband of 36 years.
God is leading her as a Christian coach to be a part of the next wave of helping women become “unstuck” and move forward with hope, perseverance, and abundant living in the aftermath of sexual betrayal. Life coaching can help betrayed women to look forward to a future where they hold the key to their healing choices.
Sharon’s Personal Mission: Proverbs 20:5: “The purposes of a person’s heart are deep waters, but one who has understanding draws them out.” Your healing lies within you, and I will walk with you as we travel along this unintended journey.”
Her favorite hobbies are spending time with God, walking in the awe of beautiful nature, listening to worship music, vacations, and regular massages.
Shawna Meek, CPC, PCC, APSATS-CPC, truly understands the roots of attachment distress in a marriage, even after addiction sobriety. Her personal story began in 2000, and after many years of mentoring women, she knew the Lord was calling her to an extensive coaching training program and ultimately APSATS as a certified partner coach. She is passionate about supporting women as they face specific challenges on this journey, including boundaries during separation and divorce, abuse and gaslighting, therapeutic disclosure preparation, intimacy anorexia and deprivation, and emotional and sexual reintegration.
Shawna and her husband, Kevin, live in Gilbert, Arizona, and have a story of God’s incredible redemption following separation, divorce, re-marriage and betrayal. They have four amazing kiddos ranging from elementary school age to a young adult in college – both biological and adopted. She knows the Lord has a mighty plan in all our stories, and no matter the outcome, He will bring hope even when it seems there is no hope.
Jean Mudry, ACC, APSATS-CPC, CDGC-Candidate, TICC, ADOH, has supported women since 2018 through coaching and groups. She specializes in helping women navigate the full therapeutic disclosure process. As a betrayed partner herself, she experienced the profound difference it made when one woman “saw her” and extended a hand of hope and courage into her pit of loneliness, devastation, and despair. Jean believes courage is contagious and offers that same hand of hope to God’s precious, hurting daughters.
Jean and her husband of 33 years are empty nesters and live in Missouri with their dog Riley. Before becoming an APSATS partner coach, she was a public school teacher and homeschool mom. Jean enjoys worship music, hiking, biking, and camping in the great outdoors with her husband. While patiently awaiting future grandchildren, you might find her loving on her granddog, Louie.
Alison Ruhter, Certified Professional Coach, APSATS-Candidate, passionate about serving others and supporting woman in their healing journey after the devastation of sexual betrayal. A partner herself, she has experienced betrayal trauma and has walked the rocky road of separation. With her personal and professional experience, she fully understands the deep pain and confusion that sexual betrayal brings.
Alison loves the Lord and seeks Him in her daily life. He has been her great comforter and provider in her own healing journey. Over a decade ago, the Holy Spirit spoke to Alison and said He would use her story for His good and not waste the deep pain she was experiencing. It didn’t make sense at that time, but she knew God would be faithful. He has opened doors and provided a clear path of becoming a professional coach. She is now dedicated to joyfully serving other women with great compassion and empathy.
Alison was married for 20 years and has three children. She has had the privilege to have lived on the east coast, upper mid west and west coast. She now resides in the great state of Texas in the northern suburbs of Dallas. In her free time, Alison leads a betrayal group at her church and delights in worshiping the Lord through playing the violin with the worship team. She is both a dog and cat lover, a Cowboy’s football fan, loves to kayak and is refreshened by a cold glass of unsweetened iced tea on a hot Texas day.
Michelle Russell, MA, LPCC, BCC, A Door of Hope peer facilitator-trained, APSATS-trained, CDGC-trained, understands from personal experience the challenges and difficulties encountered while journeying through life. After dealing with cancer as a young adult, experiencing infertility, failed adoptions, and other losses, she felt God calling her to walk with others as a licensed counselor. In 2020, she learned of her husband’s lifetime sexual addiction, and after 37 years of marriage, she began yet a new journey, clinging to the God who had never left her. Michelle pursued her own healing, and God birthed a passion in her to become a life coach in order to serve and support other women who are walking similar paths. In all of the pain, confusion, and devastation that sexual betrayal leaves behind, Michelle firmly believes that the good plans God has for her and others cannot be changed by the actions of someone else, even the betrayal of a spouse. Michelle feels privileged to partner with others as they grow more and more into who God created them to be—without this life’s harmful effects which have shaped all of us.
Michelle is a board-certified coach, a trauma and resilience coach, and a grief coach. She facilitates groups for women who have experienced sexual betrayal and she works with betrayed partners as they negotiate the healing process through gaining safety and stability, establishing boundaries, navigating the disclosure process, and finding hope in what looks only to be ashes. Michelle has been married for 40 years, and has a variety of fuzzy-faced children that most people call pets. She enjoys living in rural Ohio, exploring the countryside on her bike, hiking, walking, and spending time with Jesus and other friends.
Lyschel Burket is the Lead Hope Caster and facilitator for Finding Hope Support Groups. Lyschel can be contacted at support@hoperedefined.org.
Kristen Kelley, kk@hoperedefined.org, is our Ministry Support and can assist with payment questions, scheduling issues or any additional ministry needs.
Alicia Hall is the Media and Content coordinator, as well as the administrator for groups. Alicia can be reached at alicia@hoperedefined.org.
Faye Dykema is the communications manager for Hope Online. If you have problems accessing the Hope Online Community, or questions navigating the site, please reach out to her at faye@hoperedefined.org
Carrie Dodge is the Retreat Director for Hope Redefined. She can be reached at carrie@hoperedefined.org
Lyschel Burket is the Lead Hope Caster and facilitator for Finding Hope Support Groups. Lyschel can be contacted at support@hoperedefined.org.
Kristen Kelley, kk@hoperedefined.org, is our Ministry Support and can assist with payment questions, scheduling issues or any additional ministry needs.
Alicia Hall is the Media and Content coordinator, as well as the administrator for groups. Alicia can be reached at alicia@hoperedefined.org.
Faye Dykema is the communications manager for Hope Online. If you have problems accessing the Hope Online Community, or questions navigating the site, please reach out to her at faye@hoperedefined.org
Carrie Dodge is the Retreat Director for Hope Redefined. She can be reached at carrie@hoperedefined.org